Victor shares a story about a bystander who takes action without formal authority, using it s an example of transformatiive leadership skills, acting with care, needs-based commitment to the well-being of "the whole," and making a positive difference.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 hour, 39 minutes
  • Date Added 06/09/2018
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  • Payee Victor Lee Lewis
  • Points 4
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan shares a tip on holding a group's needs while empathizing with a single person in the group.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 2 minutes
  • Date Added 06/07/2011
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  • Payee NGL
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

How do you know when you’re projecting disowned parts or replaying old relationship dynamics? It’s hard to know for sure, but if you find yourself upset or shutting down and unable to have a dialogue in which you can speak clearly about your feelings and needs and empathize with the other’s feelings and needs, there is likely a projection. The stronger your reaction, the more likely you are projecting.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1 - 2 minutes
  • Date Added 01/2016
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  • Payee Eric Bowers
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Eric offers us a list of some of his favorite books, articles, and videos related to building successful relationships.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 5 - 8 minutes
  • Date Added 01/2016
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  • Payee Eric Bowers
  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Eric offers some tips for nurturing and affirming ourselves as a daily practice.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 3 - 5 minutes
  • Date Added 7/20/2018
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  • Payee Eric Bowers
  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

As a beginner in NVC, you might find your attempts to practice your NVC only increases conflict, disconnection and upset in your interactions with people.  Or perhaps people start seeing you as inauthentic. From there, you may find yourself sinking deeper into self-judgement. In this article, Jim Manske shows us how to shift these potential unintended outcomes, into deeper NVC consciousness that brings in more warmth, presence and open-hearted connection.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 5-8 minutes
  • Date Added 12/2017
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  • Payee NVC Academy
  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Do you yearn to step forward in leadership, but know you're holding back? Clinical psychologist, organizational consultant, and speaker, Roxy Manning, PhD, shows us that more than external factors, its our internal beliefs and fears that provide the main barrier to moving forward.  She does this by taking us through three myths of leadership, and weaves in anecdotes to illustrate how tapping our unique (often lesser recognized) qualities, can be the way forward we've been seeking. Learn ways to move forward, even if at first it appears that (1.) others can "do it better", (2.) you need to be more prepared, or even if (3.) the material you're conveying isn't so original (and has been used many times).

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 7-11 mins
  • Date Added 1/2010
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  • Payee Roxy Manning
  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Listen to Mary tackle one of the greatest challenges of facilitating an NVC group: How do you deal with hecklers and people you don't like? Mary offers insightful tips and helpful guidance.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 1 hour, 3 minutes
  • Date Added 06/02/2018
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 3
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan clarifies the distinction between empathy and sympathy.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 3 minutes
  • Date Added 06/07/2011
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  • Payee NGL
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan guides a participant to find his inner empathic presence.

Additional Info

  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 4 minutes
  • Date Added 06/07/2011
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  • Payee NGL
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1