What is self-empathy? Mary Mackenzie leads you on an exploration of self-empathy through an exercise that will show you how you can easily connect more deeply with your needs.

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  • Skill Level Introductory Skill Level
  • Duration 8 minutes
  • Production Date 9/12/2024
Join Dian Killian as she reframes the 4 steps of NVC (observations, feelings, needs, requests) into everyday words you might hear at work.

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  • Skill Level Introductory Skill Level
  • Duration 7 minutes
  • Production Date 8/31/2024

Needs Based Awareness and Organizational Structure

with Gregg Kendrick and Marie Miyashiro

Gregg Kendrick and Marie Miyashiro share the importance of nonviolent communication and needs awareness at multiple levels of organizational structure —individual, interpersonal, and organizational.

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  • Duration 3 minutes
  • Date Added 10/20/2024
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  • Payee Gregg Kendrick, Marie Miyashiro
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  • Multi Trainer Num 1

We each have the power to be the creator of our own inner experience, no matter what is going on externally. The moment you imply wrongness on others, you give power to them. In this excerpt, Aya Caspi shows that the more self-responsibility you take, the more freedom you will have.  

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  • Duration 9 minutes
  • Date Added 8/25/2024
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  • Payee Aya Caspi
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Observation is the awareness of our sensory perceptions and thoughts, separate from evaluations and judgments. Feeling involves bodily sensations and emotions, distinct from "faux feelings" that mix thought and emotion. Needs encompass universal human requirements for survival and wellness, while thoughts and evaluations express needs. Requests are rooted in connection and invite true willingness, rather than demanding compliance.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 2 - 3 minutes
  • Production Date 9/15/2024

Being heard is a core human need. But what if you don't like what the other person is saying: how do you hold onto your awareness of their humanity? Find out in this demonstration from Kathy Simon's course, Connect Across Differences.

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  • Duration 15 minutes
  • Date Added 9/25/2024
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  • Payee Kathy Simon
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Empathy – Not Empathy

with LaShelle Lowe-Chardé

This handout defines and contrasts "empathy" alongside "responses may meet needs, but are not empathy" (such as advice, correcting, consoling, etc).

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 2 - 3 minutes
  • Production Date 9/9/2024

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  • Skill Level All Skill Levels
  • Duration 2 minutes
  • Date Added 7/24/2024
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  • Multi Trainer Num 1

The Real Need

with Sven Hartenstein

What happens when you or others get into evaluating what is the “right” need? (Disclaimer: This is a humor piece. To understand why this cartoon might be funny it’s useful to have some experience with NVC and the NVC community.)

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 1 minute
  • Date Added 9/1/2024
  • Premium Members n/a
  • Payee Sven Hartenstein
  • Points 0
  • Multi Trainer Num 1
  • Witness these two visionaries engage with love, openness, and curiosity
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  • Start Date Saturday, September 28, 2024
  • Duration 2 hours
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    • Explore open questions and curiosities you have about NVC
    • Expand your thinking within NVC and its relevance to our times
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