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Parenting Series: Understanding Requests and Demands
Video • 8 minutes • 07/28/2010
Learn the difference between true requests and demands, and why honesty matters with children.
Parenting Series: Compliance and the "Yes" Inside the "No"
Video • 11 minutes • 07/28/2010
Explore whether bribery works for compliance and learn five common motives behind our actions.
Parenting Series: The Importance of Self-Empathy
Video • 14 minutes • 07/28/2010
Discover how self-empathy fosters healthy, supportive relationships with children and others.
Parenting Series: Listening for the Needs
Video • 16 minutes • 07/28/2010
See how to better connect with children’s needs, especially when they resist or react to requests.
Parenting Series: Needs, Strategies and Partnership
Video • 9 minutes • 07/28/2010
Learn to tell needs from strategies in parenting with two simple questions for clarity.
Love Without Conditions, Control or Coercion
Audio • 2 hours, 15 minutes • 7/28/2010
Kelly shares how freedom and autonomy create strong, healthy, and loving relationships.
Truth as an Act of Love
Audio • 2 hours, 14 minutes • 7/28/2010
Explore what blocks us from speaking truth and how honesty builds trust and growth.
Healing the Blame that Binds
Articles • 4 -6 minutes • 7/28/2010
Exploring how blame hides our inner voice and fuels pain through self-judgment and stories.
The Price of Nice
Articles • 12 - 16 minutes • 7/28/2010
Discover how replacing "niceness" with honesty, passion, and compassion restores aliveness.
Never Compromise
Trainer Tips • 1 - 2 minutes • 7/28/2010
Trainer Tip: Never compromise; sharing resentment 50/50 is not a sustainable solution.
Stop Suffering
Audio • 15 minutes • 7/28/2010
Kelly Bryson shows how clear intention and awareness transform pain into growth.
Kelly Bryson explores courageous honesty and how truth shared openly deepens connection.
An NVC “Do-Over”
Trainer Tips • 1 - 2 minutes • 7/28/2010
Trainer Tip: See imperfect NVC moments as learning opportunities, not failures.
What is Empathy?
Audio • 44 minutes • 7/28/2010
Jori explains three layers of empathy and how distinguishing them deepens daily practice.
The Cause of Our Feelings
Trainer Tips • 3 - 5 minutes • 7/28/2010
Exploring how stories and unmet needs each influence the cause of our feelings in NVC.
Use of “To Be” Verbs
Trainer Tips • 1 - 2 minutes • 7/28/2010
Exploring why “to be” verbs like heard or valued are seen as strategies, not needs, in NVC.
Observation: Awareness of Thought, Story & Core Belief to Enhance Connection
Audio • 2 hours, 10 minutes • 7/28/2010
John Kinyon teaches mindfulness and how to translate thoughts into clear observations.
Four Types of Feedback
Trainer Tips • 2 - 3 minutes • 7/28/2010
This explores four types of feedback: destructive, constructive, by demonstration, and dialogue.
Apologizing in NVC Language
Audio • 8 minutes • 7/28/2010
Jim Manske demonstrates using NVC and self-connection to create sincere, healing apologies.
Compassionate Communication and Empathy's Awakening
Articles • 20 - 25 minutes • 7/28/2010
Cunningham explains participatory/onlooker consciousness, plus feelings, needs, and NVC dialogues.
