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Miki Kashtan shows how translating judgments into needs transforms family conflict and connection.

Inbal Kashtan reflects on poverty and how empathy can help build a peaceful, inclusive world.

Kathleen Macferran guides you to bring NVC into daily life and break old patterns.

Explore what blocks us from speaking truth and how honesty builds trust and growth.

Exploring how blame hides our inner voice and fuels pain through self-judgment and stories.

Ask the Trainer: Get guidance on working with enemy images and exercises that bring relief.

Hema Pokharna shares how truly becoming a healing influence in this world, requires we each be powerful in a balanced, spiritually mature and responsible way. To a large extent, we need to develop our own healthy way of being powerful, gratitiude is a key.

Listen to this audio to learn the value of focusing on needs in an NVC model, either for the first time or as a refresher course. Living from a needs-consciousness creates abundance, clarity and choice. Using three examples from participants, Mary guides the group towards identifying and then connecting with the needs of both parties involved in each situation. It becomes clear very quickly that people choose different ways to support their needs; and many times they have the same needs in a given situation. When we understand this, we are able to create peace in our relationships and negotiations.

“Everything someone does or says is an attempt to meet a need,” says CNVC Certified Trainer Mary Mackenzie. This simple statement is a foundational understanding in Nonviolent Communication; once you gain skills at living in a “needs-consciousness” you will literally change your life and your perception of the world, and improve all of your relationships.

In this inspiring interview, Wes Taylor relays a story of how Nonviolent Communication is successfully used in law enforcement, and some of his challenges and joys in infusing Nonviolent Communication into a Maryland hospital culture.

Explore NVC's role in transforming power dynamics and bridging social divides.

Ask the Trainer: "In trainings I say our jackals are thoughts and now I've come to wonder if all thoughts are jackals...?"

 Connection requests focus on the quality of connection between people instead of on any particular strategy or solution. While the core motivation for a connection request may be connection with the other person, varied internal states and needs may help guide us toward different types of connection requests. Self-connection and understanding of our motivation in making a connection request can therefore greatly support our capacity for discovering and articulating what specifically we want from the other person that we believe may contribute to connection.

Explore Self-Empathy with a unique four-step process ending in gratitude.

Learn how your inner relationship forms the basis for Focusing and NVC.

The wisdom which NVC is based on is as old as humanity itself. This telecourse recording draws insights from NVC’s elder siblings of Taoism, Buddhism and indigenous culture to offer new ways of approaching common NVC ‘stuck’ places.

Practice "power with" parenting for babies to preschoolers with expert guidance from Ingrid.

Practice real-life NVC dialogue and role-play to master the dance of authentic communication.

Deepen your empathic presence with Raj and Mary, for those with basic understanding of NVC.

Explore joy through gratitude with Kathleen—stay present even amid life’s challenges.

Explore gratitude with Jori & Jim Manske to stay present and flourish in everyday life.