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  1. Ask the Trainer: For many years I have been using crime and punishment (reward and consequences) to discipline because it was the only thing I knew. I knew deep in my heart it was alienating me...

  2. On Love and Empathy

    On Love and Empathy

    Godfrey Spencer

    Trainer Tips · 5 minutes · 7/28/2010

    Ask the Trainer: Is there any difference between the concept or experience of "love" and that of "empathy?"

  3. Judging Feelings

    Judging Feelings

    Godfrey Spencer

    Trainer Tips · 12 minutes · 7/28/2010

    Ask the Trainer: Is it a good idea to use NVC on persistent guilt, anger or depression without the aid of others?

  4. Connecting With Your Husband

    Connecting With Your Husband

    Godfrey Spencer

    Trainer Tips · 7 minutes · 7/28/2010

    Ask the Trainer: My question is about wanting to empathize more with my husband. Sometimes we connect very deeply, other times he slips back into "jackal talk..."

  5. Use of Consequences to Change Behavior

    Use of Consequences to Change Behavior

    Godfrey Spencer

    Trainer Tips · 7 minutes · 7/28/2010

    Ask the Trainer: How do I respond to people who believe that consequences are necessary to change behavior?

  6. Meeting Needs While Caretaking

    Meeting Needs While Caretaking

    Godfrey Spencer

    Trainer Tips · 7 minutes · 7/28/2010

    Ask the Trainer: Can all needs be met when illness limits the capacity of one person to meet the needs of her partner?

  7. Connecting with Someone Who Has Cancer

    Connecting with Someone Who Has Cancer

    Godfrey Spencer

    Trainer Tips · 6 minutes · 7/28/2010

    Ask the Trainer: I feel overwhelmed thinking of writing to someone with cancer. What can I do?

  8. Protective Use of Force with Children

    Protective Use of Force with Children

    Godfrey Spencer

    Trainer Tips · 9 minutes · 7/28/2010

    Ask the Trainer: Can you help me connect with my needs behind the protective use of force I use with my children?

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