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  1. Oren Jay Sofer explains how we can stay grounded and maintain choice during overwhelming or emotionally charged conversations. He highlights the importance of presence—feeling our feet, noticing our breath, and expanding our awareness—to counter the fight-or-flight response and self-regulate. Oren also teaches a simple three-part structure for pausing a conversation without damaging the relationship: affirm the connection, state your limit, and offer a next step. By practicing and even memorizing a short version of this framework, we can exit challenging moments with clarity, care, and self-respect.
  2. What happens when empathy isn't enough?
    When you and the people you love keep getting into the same argument again and again with no resolution or change, it can feel deeply distressing. It may even be challenging to hold on to hope. Realizing what trauma is – a phenomenon that affects us all – increases your self-compassion and gives you solid ground to stand on. Then, when you begin to integrate the tool of unconscious contract work, you can become intimate with your own survival strategies and those of the people you love.
  3. Extreme Gratitude

    Extreme Gratitude

    Eric Bowers

    Trainer Tips · 1 - 2 minutes · 7/29/2010

    Trainer Tip: Use gratitude to overcome resistance and find enjoyment when life feels difficult.

  4. Cause of Feelings

    Cause of Feelings

    Sylvia Haskvitz

    Audio · 13 minutes · 7/29/2010

    Sylvia teaches emotion management, connecting feelings to needs, and "Screaming in Giraffe."

  5. Inspired by Marshall Rosenberg's teachings, Kathleen Macferran's self-empathy exercise offers a transformative approach for those challenging moments when you fall short of your own expectations.

  6. Navigating Polarizing Conversations

    Navigating Polarizing Conversations

    Jim & Jori Manske

    Video · 53 minutes · 12/20/2022

    This video with Jim and Jori Manske explores how to navigate polarizing conversations.

  7. How Our Behavior Impacts Our Children

    How Our Behavior Impacts Our Children

    Roxy Manning

    Video · 5 min 30 sec · 03/26/2024

    Our actions shape children’s self-perception and the stories they tell themselves.

  8. Join Itzel Hayward and Kathy Simon as they present two role-play scenarios showcasing diverse approaches to navigating difficult conversations. Throughout the demonstration, they underscore the significance of cultivating self-empathy and mindfulness to effectively engage in challenging dialogues. Specifically, they introduce a role-play scenario concerning affirmative action, aimed at illustrating the contrasting outcomes when utilizing or not utilizing nonviolent communication skills.

  9. Not Trusting the “Yes”

    Not Trusting the “Yes”

    Miki Kashtan

    Audio · 19 minutes · 7/28/2010

    Miki Kashtan shares how to build trust, balance power, and welcome honest “no’s” in dialogue.

  10. Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as explores interdependence, autonomy, valuing self and others, and power-sharing in your relationships. Free yourself to honor your longing for community, belonging, and love.

  11. Developing Patience

    Developing Patience

    Jim & Jori Manske

    Audio · 53 minutes · 10/25/2011

    Jim and Jori offer practical tools to help us develop patience through a process they call WAIT: Wake up, Accept, Insight, Take a step.

  12. Explore compassionate ways to handle volatile counseling situations in dialogue form.

  13. Principle Based Teaching

    Principle Based Teaching

    6 Session Course

    Miki Kashtan

    Multi-session Course · 7 - 10 hours · 1/17/2018

    Learn to teach from intention, rooted in NVC principles and your audience’s real-world needs.

  14. Eric offers us a list of some of his favorite books, articles, and videos related to building successful relationships.

  15. How do you know when you’re projecting disowned parts or replaying old relationship dynamics? It’s hard to know for sure, but if you find yourself upset or shutting down and unable to have a dialogue in which you can speak clearly about your feelings and needs and empathize with the other’s feelings and needs, there is likely a projection. The stronger your reaction, the more likely you are projecting.

  16. Healing and Reconciliation

    Healing and Reconciliation

    7 Session Course

    Ike Lasater, John Kinyon

    Multi-session Course · 7 - 9 hours · 5/21/2019

    Learn to navigate conflict without reactivating old pain, bringing peace to yourself and others.

  17. Courage

    Courage

    David Weinstock

    Articles · 4 - 6 minutes · 2/8/2021

    In listening to what our emotions tell us, and embracing what we do not know, we begin the path of courage. Even though our culture tells us not to, revealing our imperfections is where we can deeply connect. Living our lives more courageously honest, can shift us towards inspiring one another. Read on for how some people experienced this in coming together to transform one woman's heroine addiction.

  18. Principle-Based Teaching

    Principle-Based Teaching

    Miki Kashtan

    Downloadable Courses · ·

    Bring your teaching of NVC to a new level in these intensive course recordings that focus on shifting the intention of your teaching from how to why while embodying the principles and practice of NVC every step of the way - from planning to delivery.

    • Learn how to transform NVC into a tool for systemic awareness and healing
    • Examine the influence of difference, and uncover pathways that strengthen its capacity
    • Learn to receive and offer feedback on impact in situations fraught with power differences
    • Explore specific ways in which NVC systemically supports the full flowering of humanity
    • Delve into the dynamics of cultural differences, and discover how NVC can systemically contribute to a liberation perspective
  19. Transform your meeting facilitation with sociocratic tools like circle meetings and more.

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