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Making Demands

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Trainers:
Media Type:
Trainer Tips
Time Investment:
1 - 2 minutes
Date Added:
3/19/2021
Date Created:
2005

When we ask something of a person and threaten negative repercussions if she doesn’t comply, we're making a demand. Demands limit the possible responses and reduce joyful participation. Instead, look to find mutually satisfying resolutions. And look for ways to change your demand into a request. Read on for more.

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