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Trainer Tip: Giving up on blame and taking responsibilty for our choices is immensely empowering. Mary offers a tip for growing in this direction.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1-2 minutes
  • Date Added 06/21/2005
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
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  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Trainer Tip: Most of us have been conditioned to withhold the expression of our feelings to some degree. Mary offers a tip to de-stigmatize our feelings and relax into our humanness.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1-2 minutes
  • Date Added 06/04/2005
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
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Trainer Tip: When someone is in pain and lashing out, might be a time when empathy is needed most. Empathizing in these moments can be very challenging. Mary offers a few words of ecouragement for these situations.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 1-2 minutes
  • Date Added 05/28/2005
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Mary illustrates how we can get diverted from our group's purpose by the needs of a single indvidual in the group, especially requests for prolonged empathy. Listen to Mary reframe these scenarios and offer three helpful tips for handling these situations.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 9 minutes
  • Date Added 05/05/2016
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  • Payee Mary Mackenzie
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Miki works with a course participant to transform begrudging attendance at a mandatory meeting into the possibility for collaboration, more connection where little is expected and focus on clarity of purpose for meeting in the first place.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 8 minutes
  • Date Added 10/2008
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  • Payee NGL
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

In most business environments, purpose holds a higher priority than connection. Listen to Miki discuss the strategy of using minimum connection to remain true to the purpose at hand, and how the purpose of empathy may differ in the workplace.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 6 minutes
  • Date Added 10/2008
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  • Payee NGL
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Listen to Miki discuss two strategies for bringing NVC into the workplace in ways most likely to be well received. First Miki explains why it's best to focus more on needs than feelings in business environments. Second, she talks about unpacking needs into phrases as a way of enhancing workplace connection.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 6 minutes
  • Date Added 10/2008
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  • Payee NGL
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

What is essential to make a relationship thrive? Listen to CNVC Certified Trainer Linda Mia Mukte (formerly Rysenbry) share seven types of conversations vital to healthy, flourishing intimate relationships.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 18 minutes
  • Date Added 12/16/2013
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  • Payee Mukti Jarvis
  • Points 2
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

Does unworthiness keep you from expressing vulnerably and honestly? Afraid of being "found out?" Join CNVC Certified Trainer Arnina Kashtan as she explores this topic with a workshop participant to discern stories from needs, recognize the tension between self-acceptance and personal development and sit with the discomfort of self-acceptance.

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  • Skill Level Beginner Skill Level
  • Duration 9 minutes
  • Date Added 02/03/2009
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  • Payee Arnina Kashtan
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1

CNVC Certified Trainer Miki Kashtan helps a man whose ex-spouse reacted strongly to his attempt at empathizing with her. Miki shows us how it’s possible to hide behind our empathic expression, creating less rather than more connection. She suggests instead that we be vulnerably authentic.

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  • Skill Level Intermediate Skill Level
  • Duration 5 minutes
  • Date Added 06/07/2011
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  • Payee NGL
  • Points 1
  • Multi Trainer Num 1